Unmatch Me Now
Unmatch Me Now is a weekly podcast about the horrible and weird sides of online dating, dating ethics and everything around online dating. Hosted by Idan, based in Berlin with international guests! \ IG:@unmatchmenow \ www.swipeleft.me
Episodes
137 episodes since 2018
133 THE HEAD, THE HEART, AND THE HOO-HAA
I talked to Laurie Gerber, who's a relationship expert for people over 50 and has worked with some of the biggest companies in the world doing love coaching and currently developing The Handel Method® and focusing on LOVE coaching. we talke...
June 05, 2024
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Season 4
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Episode 133
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42:13
132 THE END TO GHOSTING?
I talked to Zaahirah, who is the founder of Hati, a new dating app that is trying to reinvent the way we connect online by creating a way for more intentional dating. we talked about why she decided to punish and ban people who ghost on the app...
May 01, 2024
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Season 4
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Episode 132
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52:29
131 BE THE STREET SMART FLIRTY DETECTIVE
I talked to Joy Farrow and Laura Frombach about their new book - Street Smart Safety for Women. about their unique backgrounds as a retired Deputy Sheriff and a former army technologist contribut...
January 15, 2024
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Season 4
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Episode 131
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54:24
130 THE FLESH MARKET
I talked to Gabi about how his art group (ArtUp Nation and the Beuys Club) view the online dating world (aka - the flesh market) and his experience with it, why most dating apps are actually the same today, and what the difference they try to p...
September 03, 2023
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Season 3
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Episode 130
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1:02:57
129 THE POWERPOINT PRESENTATION GUY
I talked to Lizette about what it's like to start using online dating for the first time ever after being in a relationship for 8 years, how to feel confident in knowing what you want (or what you don't), best dating apps to use currently and w...
May 25, 2023
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Season 3
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Episode 129
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1:08:29
128 LOVE LIKE A GUY
I talked to Guy Blaise (from Episode 101) about his new book “Love like a man” and what led him to write a new book specifically for men. we also talked about body positivity, marriage & divorce in the states, dating people with grown-up ki...
March 31, 2023
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Season 3
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Episode 128
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53:56
127 THE TINDER SCAM HUNTER
I Talked to Greg (again) all the way from down under about how he hunt down tinder scammers and also - which app is the hookup app nowadays? Does that actually exist? dating with people who than disappear, how I got stood up by a date twice, wh...
February 08, 2023
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Season 3
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Episode 127
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42:14
126 I WENT ON TINDER AND ALL I GOT WAS A GOLDEN SHOWER
Talked to Rachael who's an Irish living in berlin about her experience dating here, the peter pan syndrome that's so common in berlin, how dating is in Ireland and how religion affects our dating culture, why people invent arbitrary terms...
January 04, 2023
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Season 3
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Episode 126
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1:08:13
125 LULU PRESENTS: MURDER MYSTERY DATING IN BERLIN AND MORE!
I talked to Lulu Johnson about her new book about her berlin dating stories and her experience with online dating that led to writing the book. we talked about peter penning and how to be more mindful when you're trying to find a relationship o...
November 22, 2022
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Season 3
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Episode 125
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37:47
124 O BROTHER, WHERE ART THOU CATFISH?
I talked to Nicole about using tinder in Germany and in the US and what are the dating culture differences, also about: a very weird catfishing experience, faking big age differences, body positivity when it comes to height weight, and everythi...
September 13, 2022
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Season 3
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Episode 124
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49:06
123 THE PODFEST AUDIENCE RANDOM STORIEVERSE
During Podfest (@podfest_berlin) 2022 i hijacked the corridor and asked passer-by guests about their online dating experiences: How reading a book while walking makes a big cultural difference, the accidental tinder mismatch, how Tattoos...
September 13, 2022
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Season 3
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Episode 123
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34:30
122 A SHACK IN HIS MOM'S BACKYARD (LIVE AT PODFEST 2022)
I talked with Kate (host of About Face Podcast, burlesque dancer, and Narrative Therapist), about her Dating experience in Berlin, San Fransisco and what crazy, creepy, and weird da...
August 10, 2022
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Season 3
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Episode 122
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1:14:54
121 DISILLUSIONED WITH BERLIN'S DATING LIFE
I talked to Shirin about their experience on tinder as a nonbinary and nonmonogamous person, navigating through the chaos of dating apps and deciphering what means what.We also talked about the cultural differences between dating in Berlin ...
July 12, 2022
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Season 3
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Episode 121
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56:18
120 THE JEWISH HAMBURGER
I talked to Aurilia about dating as a traditional Jew in Hamburg, using Jswipe and other apps like Tinder and Bumble, integrating as a french swiss in Germany and dating german men, ppl who look you up on Instagram after a match, going to a Jsw...
June 13, 2022
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Season 3
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Episode 120
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56:26
119 THE GHOST THAT DEMANDED A SHELF
I talked to Simona about relationship and dating mindsets in Lithuania and why she moved away, how she had an adventurous date with a soldier in the middle of nowhere, how spontaneous ppl are notoriously hard to date, why the men/women binary d...
April 24, 2022
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Season 3
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Episode 119
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1:03:10
118 KEEP THE FU$%ING CONDOM ON
Adélaïde told me about her assault / stealthing experience that happened with a man she met online, her journey to try to prosecute him according to the law that is supposed to help her, and the problems with the organizations and entities that...
March 29, 2022
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Season 3
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Episode 118
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1:17:56
117 MOUNTAIN BIKERS, MUPPETS, NAZIS AND THUNDERSTORMS
I talked to Aspen and Nicole, who hosts a podcast about dating German men called The dating abroadcast, about dating in Germany. we spoke about Nicole's syst...
March 22, 2022
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Season 3
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Episode 117
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1:50:25
116 THE BOOB HONKER
I talked to Simone about her online dating experience involving a guy who hates cold pizzas and will not let it go, a guy who was really determined to lecture her about having kids on the tram, guys who see themselves as alpha males and why tha...
March 11, 2022
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Season 3
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Episode 116
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1:25:51
115 FETA LIFE, KINK & CONSENT
Alexander and I talked for the second time after recording the last episode with him (E98) to catch up on how the online dating life in Greece is coping with the pandemic life. we also talked about STI's, consent, understanding your partner's b...
February 10, 2022
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Season 3
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Episode 115
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59:39
114 THE FIGHT FOR CONSENT
I talked to Alexandra (@alexborntobewild) - who hosts a podcast about consent - about why we should be more contentful in our dating life (and generally) and how doe...
January 05, 2022
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Season 3
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Episode 114
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53:02
113 "YOUR EYES ARE NOT EMPTY ANYMORE, THEY ARE FULL OF ANGER"
I talked to Maria about her experience using OKC and other apps and the horrible things people told her on her dates. we also talked about dating in Berlin versus dating in Spain, how cultural differences take place in dating, why you should no...
November 04, 2021
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Season 3
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Episode 113
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57:55
112 A BLIND WOMAN'S TINDER SUCCESS
I talked to Sai, who wrote an article about her experience using tinder as a blind woman, we also talked about how she met Jack - her partner, how they met through tinder, how Sai navigate some people’s reactions on tinder, and what it wa...
October 01, 2021
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Season 3
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Episode 112
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1:07:48
111 THE CHOICE OVERLOAD
I talked to Tina and Tobi (@tobiasherrmann) from Not Less But Better (@notlessbutbetter) about how they developed an online course to help people with the struggles of online dating, dig...
September 17, 2021
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Season 3
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Episode 111
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1:08:31
110 THE TINDER SEX-SCAPADE
I talked to Merav about her online dating experience, how the app gamification can be addictive, how Bumble is different in different cultures, shallowness when it comes to dating, expectancies in more macho cultures when it comes to dating, vi...
August 30, 2021
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Season 3
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Episode 110
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55:43
109 THE REJECTIONS RICOCHET
I talked to Shira about her online dating experience in Jerusalem during the first and second wave of the pandemic, how she got gaslighted by a Catfishes, how her date reacted very dramatically to being rejected, kissing without consent, cummin...
August 27, 2021
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Season 3
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Episode 109
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56:12